My departure from the guild

Post by **yanti** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 1:16 am

Dear All,

I have heard that there's chatter about my departure from ES.
Some speculate that I left due to negative DKP. That's not so. I spoke with Vedrix...he didn't get a chance to mention my DKP balance...I told him I realize it's substantial and I'm willing to work off the debt via helping ES'ers and its recruits flags and keys.

I left because "I" have an issue. After weeks of trying to deal with it, I couldn't resolve it.
With what or with whom I had the issue is unimportant. What's important is I could not cope with it while in ES.
Now that I have departed, I feel I can breathe, and eventually get past it.

Yes, I do have a new guild tag.
No, I did NOT leave ES specifically to get into this guild.
A member of GH made me an offer to join them because they are breaking into Demi and my moderate experience in the zone is still substantial compared to theirs. I did NOT go with GH because it seemed a step back; so I went with a lateral move.

When did I apply to this guild? As you all may know, there's a three day waiting period between application and being tagged by these folks and I got tagged today. So YES, I applied 3 days ago. WHY is because something happened three days ago (not gonna get into it), but it broke the camel's back. Taking a leave of absence from EQ and staying in ES was not a viable solution because upon return, I would have been right back in the situation that bothered me to begin with.

I sincerely apologize if anyone feels betrayed. I didn't mean to hurt anyone.
"I" have been hurting, and again, I feel I can breathe now...I can start dealing with MY ISSUE!
I am still willing to be friends if you are. Once more, I am truly sorry I couldn't work things out while in the guild.

Post by **Peill** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 1:39 am

You applied to PR (or at least they recieved your app as of) 11-02.

you had this planned, and had at very least 3 days to post this to us before leaving on a "bad note".

Post by **Dissident** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 1:43 am

So you're giving us the old "its not you, its me?"

Post by **audreya** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 2:08 am

Another newb who get gear and leave cause they cant be loyal and love to being stupid.

Gratz on wasting our time and good luck guild jumper

Post by **fazin** » Tue Nov 06, 2007 2:23 am

Good luck Yanti in whatever you do.

I'm locking this thread since obviously some members feels betrayed by what you did.